welcome

This site is dedicated to underdressing, a more discrete variation on crossdressing. I hope this site is helpful to everyone: underdressers, crossdressers, and their significant others trying to understand/support us.

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panty drawer overhaul

i discovered new favorites ... Panties. Im sure many women don’t really think about them. They are just a mundane part of their daily...

purple Christmas

I’ve been meaning to post about this for a few weeks, but, you know, life. Anyway... A few years ago, I purchased a dark purple case for...

daily care

I’ve been meaning to get to this topic for a while. The way I express my feminine side isn’t quite as typical as other crossdressers. I...

i went shopping today!

As part of my Christmas gift, my wonderful wife got me a gift card to Soma, Also, I’ve got some holiday cash. Today, seemed like a good...

Surprising... thank you!

Ok... So, I’m not sure how this happened, but it’s exciting. I was so nervous to post a blog of this nature, as dressing is a very...

purge time

Purges are bad on many levels. Purging means overwhelming guilt and shame have built up to a point so strong that owning women’s items is...

I really love wearing bras!

Ok, so not all crossdressers may be into bras - they may look at bras as a necessary evil (as I am sure many, many women do as well!)....

becoming more comfortable

What a weekend... My wife and I celebrated our anniversary recently. The kids stayed the night at a friend’s house. We booked a B&B not...

love and acceptance

I’ve been fortunate to have some positive energy around my dressing recently. I’m pretty damn lucky. I have been working on being more...

a fun Friday night

So somehow it happened - I had night all to myself - a rare thing these days. I could dress. I could walk around the house without the...

a tough month

I had to have surgery in the beginning of June. I wasn’t going to be able to wear a bra for over a month. Talk about rough. From wearing...

The struggle is real

Crossdressing is hard. It’s hard on so many levels. I question myself so frequently that I’ve stopped counting. My head bounces around...

recalling my first bra fitting

(Remember I’ve been wearing panties for over 20 years, bras were on and off, but now worn daily - and those bras have primarily been...

some of my faves...

So many bras, so many panties, so little time to try them all (wouldn’t that be fun)! I thought I’d take a moment to mention some of my...

My new sleep bra

So a few weeks ago I fell asleep in my sports bra. It was comfortable, I was relaxing, and before I knew it, it was morning. I was in a...

just getting started

First off, thanks for checking out this blog. Welcome everyone - undressers, crossdressers, significant others, and anyone who is curious...