welcome

This site is dedicated to underdressing, a more discrete variation on crossdressing. I hope this site is helpful to everyone: underdressers, crossdressers, and their significant others trying to understand/support us.

A little more about me

panty drawer overhaul

i discovered new favorites ... Panties. Im sure many women don’t really think about them. They are just a mundane part of their daily rou...

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i went shopping today!

As part of my Christmas gift, my wonderful wife got me a gift card to Soma, Also, I’ve got some holiday cash. Today, seemed like a good t...

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I really love wearing bras!

Ok, so not all crossdressers may be into bras - they may look at bras as a necessary evil (as I am sure many, many women do as well!). How...

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becoming more comfortable

What a weekend... My wife and I celebrated our anniversary recently. The kids stayed the night at a friend’s house. We booked a B&B not f...

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love and acceptance

I’ve been fortunate to have some positive energy around my dressing recently. I’m pretty damn lucky. I have been working on being more co...

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a fun Friday night

So somehow it happened - I had night all to myself - a rare thing these days. I could dress. I could walk around the house without the wo...

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recalling my first bra fitting

(Remember I’ve been wearing panties for over 20 years, bras were on and off, but now worn daily - and those bras have primarily been spo...

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some of my faves...

So many bras, so many panties, so little time to try them all (wouldn’t that be fun)! I thought I’d take a moment to mention some of my g...

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My new sleep bra

So a few weeks ago I fell asleep in my sports bra. It was comfortable, I was relaxing, and before I knew it, it was morning. I was in a ...

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