welcome

This site is dedicated to underdressing, a more discrete variation on crossdressing. I hope this site is helpful to everyone: underdressers, crossdressers, and their significant others trying to understand/support us.

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purge time

Purges are bad on many levels. Purging means overwhelming guilt and shame have built up to a point so strong that owning women’s items is...

love and acceptance

I’ve been fortunate to have some positive energy around my dressing recently. I’m pretty damn lucky. I have been working on being more...

a tough month

I had to have surgery in the beginning of June. I wasn’t going to be able to wear a bra for over a month. Talk about rough. From wearing...

The struggle is real

Crossdressing is hard. It’s hard on so many levels. I question myself so frequently that I’ve stopped counting. My head bounces around...

just getting started

First off, thanks for checking out this blog. Welcome everyone - undressers, crossdressers, significant others, and anyone who is curious...